Almost all of us, at most times, of ending something.. be it a relationship or a job or even Life.. have had a difficult time coming to terms with the END of something.. Isn't it?
When a relationship ends we tend to focus on the 'Future Lost' or the 'wasted time in the past' .. Right?
When a job that you held comes to an abrupt end .. Don't you tend to feel that you have been wronged.. ?
When ever something you like or want or cherish ends .. are we not in agony?
What if END was actually positive?
Well there are many examples in your own life that will tell you that you loved The End .. But only for things that u din't like or din't want or hate .. Think .. Think .. right?
So how come we cherish some endings and hate the other?
I want you to focus on these two fundamental reasons
First being.. ATTACHMENT
And the other being a MIS-UNDERSTANDING of our UN-favorable 'endings'
Let me throw some light on to this possible misunderstanding..
In Reality "End signifies completion"
- but is mis-understood as Incomplete... since we have many expectations attached to our situations and relationships.. Is that not so?
The Truth is "End signifies a NEW Beginning"
- but for many of us its more about unavailability of someone or something.. So deeply are we stuck in the our ' I Miss It' syndrome .. That we forget to cherish and enjoy the NEW Beginnings .. Right?
Lets use this understanding, even if only for testing purposes .. See how your next end goes .. Emotionally incharge or emotionally discharged..
Remember you are always .. always Loved .. Even if you can't see it right away..
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